Monday, July 23, 2012

So why is this happening...

Being a product of divorce is not a joking matter... well it is if you are me.  As a female when our father is non-existent we acquire what is commonly known as "daddy issues".   This of course is not the scientific term, (many say the scientific term for these "daddy's issues" is known as Electra Complex) but when guys hear "daddy issues" they either get excited for a girl who will undoubtedly put out or they get scared at the possibility of a stage 5 clinger.  Now you see there is a reason these stereotypes have come about...mostly because they are true.  I personally, seeing as I am girl with "daddy issues" take more of the "cut and run before things go bad" approach. Wait... I'm getting ahead of myself... we will delve more into that later on.  This post is just explaining why this blog is being written.  So back to my original point. Girls-fathers= dysfunction.  Even those of us who are "well adjusted" from the past still have those "daddy issues" creep up on us from time to time.  So why is this happening... well it is my hopes to write experiences, crazy moments, a general reference guide for us girls who feel crazy because of whatever issue decides to rear it's ugly head that day.  YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Girls are crazy, we can't help it for whatever reason, our craziness varies depending on the reasoning behind it, but by all accounts we are nuts.  We can only hide it for so long, but it will come out eventually.  So for me making fun and light of not having a father growing up and the relationships it has interfered with, is a perfect way to adjust.  So weekly posts about my wacky, romantically stunted life will hopefully put more females at ease knowing we are all a little dysfunctional... just hang in there and hope you get better and better at hiding it.

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